Hi Graham
Its important to let everyone have their say about situations and events that they feel effects them.
Its not for a moderator of any forum to decide for themselves what is right or wrong, we can not act as judge and jury.
If of course any member feels that things are being said that can be proven to be wrong then its their duty to point this out. And if proven then action will be taken to remove comments from the site.
The first time you have pointed anything out to me and anyone else reading this forum was your post of a few hours ago where you said you would be going to your solicitor, I would have thought an email to me would have been a better idea.
Your next response is your post of above, where by you are talking about trolls on the forum, again we can not judge as to who is or is not such a person.
The idea of this forum is to allow the grown ups to have an internet platform to talk on, I do not feel I have to tell them how to behave, I will, and have taken off a few comments and edited some postings as the wording of them was out of order on an open forum.
I ask again Graham if you would like to point out to me the posts you are on about.

Why should we need a Forum moderator - arent we all responsible adults ??? maybe not - when you read some of the comments it does make you wonder, no surprise that people are leaving the forum.. people are getting very personal and derogative towards each other - is there any need for it - we came to live here to be happy and enjoy our lives - or maybe not in some cases.